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How drinking tea can make you rich (and build willpower)

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I stopped drinking coffee and it changed my life. It wasn’t so much that getting off the brew improved my health, although it didn’t hurt. The real win, when I switched from coffee to tea, was I learned about willpower.

In my early years in business I was a river guide. I had other jobs, but the summers were for guiding. Getting up early, packing mountains of heavy rafting equipment, driving to the river, rigging rafts, entertaining guests all day, often in cold, wet, nasty weather, and then doing it all again in reverse, made for a very, very long day. So we drank a lot of coffee. A lot.

I later graduated to nicer varieties and more visits to the growing number of cafes, where a coffee was now $3 or $4 a cup, instead of the $1 schlep I was weaned on.

MY ASSIGNMENT

One day, in my thirties, I made an appointment to meet a financial planner. I was looking forward to learning the latest in wealth-growing strategies. Instead, I was instructed to record every penny I spent for a week. His argument was I needed to know what I was spending before learning how to save. I’m naturally an over-achiever, so I do it two weeks.

At the time, I was teaching a lot of self-employment training classes and getting up early to prep for class and then drive to whatever town I was teaching in.

At the end of the two weeks I discovered (guess what?) coffee was a big expense on my list. And when I calculated my total annual spend on the bean in pre-tax dollars (what I needed to earn in order to pay for that mocha, or latte) I calculated I was working about one week a year for Starbucks!

I was in shock. Here I was busting my butt to land teaching contracts, sometimes teaching two classes a day, and I was blowing it on coffee! So I stopped. 

On that day I went cold turkey and started drinking tea.

That was 17 years ago and I haven’t had a single espresso, latte, Frappuccino or mug of coffee since. 

But, here’s the real lesson. It wasn’t so much about ending the coffee habit that changed my life, it was what happened to my willpower.

WHAT IS WILLPOWER?

Willpower is our ability to make a decision rationally, even though our dopamine-induced prefrontal cortex is screaming out “Buy it. I need it NOW!”.

Willpower is what you use when:

  • going for a workout, yoga class, run, cycle, even though you had a long day at work
  • saying “No” to desert and order green tea, instead
  • biting your tongue and staying quiet when your partner is steaming mad
  • turning off Facebook/TV/Duck Dynasty to go to bed when you planned to
  • working solely on a writing project for 30 minutes, without checking email or Facebook

That’s willpower. And I’m convinced willpower rules the world.

WILLPOWER CAN RULE YOUR WORLD

If you want to get rich, you need willpower. In fact, if you want to do anything beyond an impulse-driven, basic instinct existence, you need willpower.

If you want to drop 15 lbs, and be able to run stairs again, you need willpower.

If you want to finish that book, book more clients, close that deal, or get that raise, you need willpower.

And, if you want to earn more, spend less, or create passive income, you need willpower.

Willpower is hands-down the most powerful resource we have for overcoming resistance, procrastination, and the “Yeah, but’s” we throw at ourselves daily. [Tweet this out]

But willpower has to be created.

MULTIPLIER EFFECT

The concept that willpower is like a muscle is relatively new. Researchers discovered that experiments, like the classic marshmallow experiment with four-year olds, prove that when we practice willpower in one area of our life, we can gain more willpower in other areas.

In one experiment, subjects (all were selected because they were overweight) were asked to record everything they ate over a two-week period. They weren’t told to eat less, or change their diet – just record what they ate. After two weeks, not only did they eat less, eat better, and lose weight (which you might have expected) they also smoked less, drank less alcohol, and slept better. What?!?

It turns out that an act of willpower in one area (recording what you eat) promotes willpower in others areas of your life.

CRAZY RESULTS FROM THE LAB

In another experiment, subjects, all of whom were involved in romantic relationships, were split into three groups. Group one were told to use their non-dominant hand for eating, opening doors, and brushing their teeth (all of which requires willpower.) Group two was instructed to avoid swearing and say “Yes” instead of “Yeah”. Group three, no change. 

After only two weeks, groups one and two were measurably less likely to respond with anger in a disagreement, compared to group three, who wasn’t practicing any new areas of willpower.

Again, practicing willpower in one area (like using a non-dominant hand for routine tasks) strengthens it in others. You can also become more aware of habits that don’t serve you.

When I kicked the coffee habit I started to notice that post-it notes littering my desk, constantly checking email, or skipping breaks didn’t cut it. Nor did staying up late watching TV reruns, making excuses to avoid exercise, or procrastinating on writing my blog. It felt out of character to be sloppy in one area of my life, when I was keeping commitments in other.

I like the feeling of keeping a commitment and I wanted more of it.

DO THIS TODAY

It doesn’t take much to build more willpower, just choose one change, and do it every day. It could be going to bed earlier, eating less food, working from a Flight Plan, or checking Facebook less often. The point is to make the change and stick to it.

Just for fun, I’ve listed some (somewhat) easy changes you can make today. All of these are willpower-builders:

  • go to bed at the same time every night.
  • eat less food
  • do the hardest 50% of your work in the first 90 minutes of the day (video)
  • update every day and work from only one planning tool (day timer, digital, app, etc)
  • update a grateful journal or five minutes every night
  • if you think about calling someone…do it
  • replace one unhealthy snacking habit (you know what it is) with a healthy one
  • drink water as soon as you wake up
  • read for 20 minutes everyday
  • show up five minutes early to meetings
  • practice my Friday 15 system every week (video)

You are a super star. The fact that you read this blog tells me you care how you show up in the world and the results you create. Now you can polish your star to shine a bit brighter for the world. 

Just pick one change from my list (or make up your own) and do it every day. 

Let me know, below in the comments, which one you are working on – I want to know!

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About Hugh Culver

Speaker, author, athlete and founder of BlogWorks. I speak and write about getting stuff done and the art of growing younger.

Categories: Blog, Expert/Speaker Tagged: coffee, entrepreneur, habits, income, motivation, procrastination, productivity, progress, willpower, work

Comments

  1. Tim Manning says

    May 12, 2014 at 10:04 am

    Great message. Thanks for sharing‎.
    All the best, Tim

    Reply
    • Hugh Culver says

      April 5, 2017 at 6:12 am

      Thanks Tim – I appreciate that (I’ll keep going)!

      Reply
  2. Parastoo says

    May 15, 2014 at 8:47 am

    A very encouraging article. I decided to stop procrastinating and started working out 4 days a week.

    Reply
    • Hugh Culver says

      June 10, 2014 at 10:23 pm

      Parastoo – that’s fantastic. Way to go!

      Reply
  3. Dorothy says

    April 5, 2017 at 2:54 am

    I really want to try drinking water as soon as i wake up for now n try others later. Thanks for enriching articles

    Reply
    • Hugh Culver says

      April 5, 2017 at 6:11 am

      Thanks Dorothy- that’s one of my favourites!

      Reply
  4. Jonathon Saviano says

    July 15, 2017 at 1:58 pm

    Hi there, I read your blogs on a regular basis. Your humoristic style is witty, keep it up!

    Reply
  5. Esther Barton says

    July 15, 2017 at 2:26 pm

    Very interesting topic , appreciate it for posting .

    Reply
  6. Valerie says

    July 17, 2017 at 5:09 am

    Very informative. Thank you so much. I will be drinking water as soon as I wake up. I wanted to start but haven’t so now I will.I will use my willpower in this area every day. Have a great week.

    Reply
  7. Yemi says

    January 7, 2019 at 9:35 am

    Great article, great for the new year. So true about having more information than capacity to take it in! Mine is going to be reading 20 mins in the evening. And having a salad every now and again for lunch!
    Thanks Hugh 👍

    Reply
    • Hugh Culver says

      January 7, 2019 at 4:00 pm

      Yemi I had my salad today! I really like the 20 min read/day. I’ve fallen off the wagon a bit on that one, but really like it when I nail it.

      Reply

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